Poor guy. I must be a lot tougher for a guy losing his hair than for a girl with small breasts. Boobies can be bought. Anything a guy does to try and fix baldness only makes him look ridiculous. It’s rare but not impossible for a man to be attractive when he’s bald or balding. One very sexy bald man who immediately comes to mind is Terry Bradshaw. He is a man who exudes self-confidence and charisma. Another thing some men try is to go ahead and shave their head entirely, since the Kojak look is in right now. But that works more for black men than white. To me, a completely bald white man just looks like a cancer patient.
I think that anybody who exudes self-confidence and charisma is attractive. Have you ever noticed that? I have met a few women who, at first glance, I found completely unattractive. But after meeting them, I was so struck by their overall personal charm that I started to see a lot of real beauty in them. It’s like their personality caused them to actually appear physically beautiful to me and I feel like I could really fall in love with them. It sounds really weird and I can’t explain it, something about their expressiveness and their very genuine human nature. It’s extremely rare though. Very few people have that quality and the women who do are always either married or in very healthy and committed relationships. I can’t help but think that being in a good relationship gives people at least some of the confidence they need to be that way.
And equally rare are men who truly appreciate it. My Partner is one of them, and it took me damn near a year to get that through my head. I was confused (and concerned) that he claimed NOT to have a physical "type," as most men do (big breasts, or long hair, or the grrl-next-door look, or nice legs, or whatever). After a guided tour of the porno collection my Partner accumulated between splitting with his last S.O. and meeting me, I finally saw for myself that he truly DOES have no physical "type," but instead goes gaga over what we have now formulated as "women who carry themselves with pride, style, and a big shit-eating grin." 
And even when THOSE criteria have been met, any woman who "opens her mouth and ruins everything" (by being an obvious airhead) gets thrown right of the running, rotflmao!!!!
I think you just have to find someone with career/monetary priorities similar to your own. One of the reasons my brother broke up with his girlfriend is because her career came first. She would work 15-hour days and come home late and was always too tired to spend any time with him. He said that she would make a whole Saturday out of doing bills and financial stuff and all of the "paperwork" seemed more important to her than he did. He, on the other hand, is more interested in a simple, stress-free life. He works and is not a loaf or anything but as long as he can pay the bills and have enough money left for his simple lifestyle, he is as happy as he can be.
Man loosing hair…
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