Well, the same things I like now - she has a great sense of humor, very compatible with mine - we both have sort of a ’sick’ sense of humor I guess you might say; we have a lot of other common interests - we both like music a lot and have very similar tastes in music, art, movies, etc. We’ve done a lot of creative things together, from being in bands together to putting together art projects and magazines, making movies etc. I dunno. Why do you ask? In a way it almost seems to me like things started going downhill after we had kids and couldn’t go out & do things together like we used to - we started taking turns going out to see bands or movies, her usually with friends, me usually by myself (she’s got friends in the area, and while I know a lot of people, most of them are not into going out to the same things I am, or just don’t have time to hang out & be friends). Now she prefers going out with her friends instead of me and if we ever do luck out & get a babysitter so we can go out together, she accuses me of just ‘tagging along’ with her like a puppydog or something. So I feel like I’m damned if I do, damned if I don’t. If I don’t try to bring her closer, she’ll get more distant, but she gets pissed off & more distant when I do try.
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